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Top 10 cruel things women do to men

Posted by iluvshrutiverma on November 30, 2009

Man & woman

Despite being known as the fairer sex, women can be downright nasty and often do cruel things to men.

Now, Fox News has compiled a list of top 10 cruel things that women do to men and how they play with the guy’s emotions or ego.

10. They don’t pick up the phone
While men feel good as they manage to take the girls’ phone number, the girls often give them a fake number or don’t pick up the call.

9. Use men for free drinks
Some women go out never planning to spend any of their own money on drinks at the bar or club. Instead, they count on their feminine wiles to convince guys to shell out for their libations. While some of them might begin to get to know him, the cruel and heartless ones will take that drink, flirt a little and move on.

8. Use men as placeholders
If she is a decent person, she’ll just get it over with and dump the boy, but if she’s cruel, she’ll hold on to him for a while until somebody new comes along. These girls don’t like to be alone and without a relationship, so instead of putting you out of your misery and ending it, she’ll string you along until she meets someone to replace you.7. Emotionally manipulate men
Men don’t like to see women cry and some cruel women take advantage of the fact and use it to get what they want. A few tears would make men do anything to get it to stop.

6. Use physical violence
While men hitting girls are often termed nasty, some cruel women feel it’s perfectly acceptable to hit their boyfriends, as he would never hit her back. This type of woman feels like she can inflict any kind physical pain on him without fear of repercussion.

5. Criticize their men in public
Cruel women criticize and humiliate their men in public places. They often poke fun at her man or even soundly debase him.

4. They don’t disclose their relationship status
It’s certainly not the worst thing a woman could do to a man, but it is annoying when she’s already in a relationship and lets you assume that she’s available so that she can enjoy the man’s flirtation and flattery.

3. They withhold sex
This is a time-tested, and frequently used, cruel thing for women to do to men. For most men, sex is as important as breathing, so withholding it in order to get something she wants or simply to punish her man for his transgressions is a pretty awful thing to do, even if it is effective.

2. They test their men
You’re all ready to go for a night out with your friends, when your girlfriend calls and asks you to change your plans to be with her instead. She doesn’t have any particular reason; she just wants to see you. She knows that you had plans to meet up with the guys, but if you really loved her, you’d come over to her place instead. If her request comes with an “if you really loved me,” then it’s a test. If you choose anything other than immediately rushing to her side, you’re going to fail. This kind of testing in a relationship is indeed cruel and petty.

1. They flirt to inspire jealousy
Maybe she’s feeling underappreciated, maybe you’ve just had a big fight or maybe she just enjoys the tortured look on your face. For whatever reason, girls who flirt obviously with other guys in front of their boyfriends are immature and manipulative.

11 Responses to “Top 10 cruel things women do to men”

  1. Nicky said

    Gimme a guy who broke up with a girl who did all these!!

    He’d worship me 😛

    Top 10 things that guys do to girls:

    1. Use them for sex.
    2. Cheat on them with other women
    3. Doubt them for ‘chastity’ if she wants sex
    4. Tell her she is frigid if she doesn’t want sex
    5. Keep a tab on her spending
    6. Forget to keep up dates
    7. Emotionally manipulate
    8. Use as servant for doing daily chores
    9. Keep their relationship status hidden.
    10. Look, stare and check out every other female animal in the vicinity.

    If any of the above 10 or the 10 that you mentioned in the paragraph are what you are subject to – your boyfriend/girlfriend hates you. LET GO OF THIS PERSON AS SOON AS YOU CAN!!

  2. sumanth said


    This post is about cruel things that women do.

    See, men have the choice to discuss about women and their negative side of it just the way women have a choice.

    You have no right to pitch in with woman’s issues.

    When we are talking about cruelty that men face, lets keep to the topic.

    • JusticeSeeker said

      My lovely psycho wife is against my parents and my family and is fooling the society by saying that she loves me. She left my home four times and is coming back to my life hell. She know that I and my parents and my family gave ample opportunities to her to calm down, but she is playing the game of fear and mental terror.

      She has got green signal from

      -the society (because society treats women as the oppressed one) ,
      -courts(because courts are pawns to play the draconian gender based laws) and
      -her parents(as they unleashed the horrific terror of their home in our home and now are all prepared to listen to wrath from us as now they can live peacefully without a psycho who may made their lives hell for about twenty five years)

      Now I am alone in this world to face the terror that I wish nobody ever gets in his/her life.

      What can anybody say to me know ? Have patience. After every night there is day. I agree.. but what should I do ?

      • Dear Justice Seeker

        It is very common that society has partiallity to women than men, because they have one disadvantage from men is their “VIRGINITY”, if they lose this then nothing else they have in their life. So society keep this thing as very sensitive one and now entire society is supportive to them. Now as far as your issue is concern, keep working on your project and simultaneously follow your exwife what is she doing, whether she is doing good without you, or she needs you.

        Most of the women will not feel comfortable after divorce, because they have more social impact than men. so why dont you figure out and where it went wrong. You dont bother about her, you just keep saving money and there are millions of perfect women for a perfect man like you, normally all perfect man will end their married life in divorce. So it happens to only perfect man, not to all. So keep one thing in your mind that whatever has happend all because of your good shake and life is awaiting for you to still sign and show who you are. Are you a man of women comfort? Keep following what she is doing, if she is having an affair with anybody findout and catch her redhanded.

        If you need more advice and moral support I am here to help you out. Keep mailing me I will give you an ideas what to be done.

        Thanks and all the best….J Suresh Kumar

  3. Nicky said

    @ Sumanth

    Of course you do. But these are stuff men do to women too! They are what every strong fellow does to a weak fellow. Be it a man or a woman!

    They are not exclusive to men OR women.

    Cruelty isn’t gender specific. But if you stick around with a person who is being cruel to you – then you are plain stupid.

    Men don’t face cruelty. Neither do women. Weaklings face cruelty. Stop being weak.

    • Women are provided protection from cruelty & many times it is misused whereas same protection for same crime it not given to males.

      A wife can kill husband but will not face DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT but even is she herself cut by blade she can have whole family of husband behind bar.


    • Kavi said

      Aptly said, Nicky! Weaklings face cruelty… I agree with you. In a way, I am glad that you’ve backed off from your
      earlier post by highlighting that it is not gender specific.

      While accepting that “act of cruelty” isn’t gender specific,
      thus negating all that you said about women getting raw deal, I now draw your attention to average status of men
      in modern society. With each day, Modern society is being
      poisoned against men be it work, house, parenting, police
      or law.

      Given the way laws and overall society dice is loaded, married men (like I once was) are more likely to be
      weaklings who cannot even easily walk out or protest
      against cruelty.

      Many like me, have invested entire life’s savings in properties or assets or are mortgaged to neck and when
      the woman for they bought the house ACTS cruel. If he
      confronts her, she takes aid of law and robs him in
      daylight. If he does not confront, it goes on increasing
      until you either commit suicide or confront….

      Now, do you get the message of the post?….

    • leary cate said

      being a man in india ia crime itself 🙂

      • iluvshrutiverma said

        I agree. Men are the biggest enemies of men – women by themselves can’t do anything. It is the men who want to sacrifice themselves for women, it is the men who want to fight for women; be it the father, brother, judge, police officer – whoever – most of them are men… and are against men. For example – the judge sitting here looks at the husband and thinks “Oh, he must be torturing this poor delicate soul (wife), let me teach him a lesson”. In fact, off late I have been coming across many husbands also who think ‘I am the only one innocent, all other husbands must have tortured their wives”

  4. there is a lot of difference between the words woman and wife woman means the fairer sex and men have to respect this fairer sex but wife ……..

    • iluvshrutiverma said

      “Men have to respect fairer sex” – what about respecting men? I only hear ‘We should respect women’. Why do we never hear ‘Respect men’?.

      On a side note, I agree that women ‘fit’ different roles differently. Eg. those who make good sisters do not necessarily make good wives.

      I was having this interesting conversation with a woman on my other blog, and it came up in a discussion: Women often do not get their fair share in ancestral property though the law says so. Still, we do not see many cases of women taking their parents/ siblings to court – it is because for women, their parents are their family; while husband is just a free ATM machine, who should be sent to jail if he fails to obey her orders.

      (For details, you can please refer to my response on comment 25 by Abhanita on

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